Woman's Day
October 10th, 1994 (Australia)

Stephanie's Aussie Love Mission

by
Michelle Lollo



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She left Hollywood for Melbourne in search of a forgotten man.


StephanieStunning Hollywood star Stephanie Beacham does not shy away from challenging parts, but the star of Network Ten's new series seaQuest never imagined her toughest role would be played in a quiet Melbourne suburb during her first trip to Australia.

This time the lines were not scripted and it was a performance that came straight from the heart, when Stephanie carried a message of love from her ailing father to the brother he has not seen or spoken to in more than 70 years.

The 47-year-old actress usually spends summers in Malibu with her daughters Phoebe, 19, and Chloe, 17, who attend boarding school for most of the year in England.

But heartfelt pleas from her father Alec, to make contact with Tom and see that he was alive and well, sent Stephanie and Phoebe across the globe to meet the 88-year-old for the first time.

"For years Daddy has been saying he wanted to see Tom, but he's too old to travel now." Stephanie says.

"He's getting a bit wobbly, and I think he realised he was getting close to the end and would never see Tom again, so coming here was to give my father peace of mind that Tom was doing okay."

The two brothers lost contact when a 16-year-old Tom, with encouragement from his father to travel and broaden his horizons, boarded a ship bound for Australia with nothing more than a suitcase and the hope of adventure.

Kristin WestphalenThe moment the ship docked at Adelaide, Tom's love affair with Australia began, and he has never returned to the United Kingdom, not even for a holiday.

With the travel taking as long as it did in years gone by, neither Alec, now 87, nor his family ever visited Australia.

"I think the brothers always meant to make the trip," says Stephanie, "but it was one of those things that just never happened, and phoning each other from opposite sides of the world was unheard of for that generation. The odd Christmas card was about it."

On the eve of her first encounter with the uncle she had never known, and realising that her father would be waiting anxiously for any news, Stephanie suffered stage fright.

But when the former Dynasty star - seen briefly on Network Ten's 90210 as Luke Perry's mum - walked into the suburban Melbourne retirement village and saw the spitting image of her father, her nervousness dissolved into tears of joy.

"He looks so much like my father, it's unbelievable," she says.

"I was so worried that I would find Tom in an awful state and have to report that back to my father. That would destroy him. But Tom looks wonderful for an 88-year-old man, don't you think?

"I just wish Daddy could be here to see him, too, but I feel so relieved being able to pass on to him that Tom is living comfortably and in nice surroundings," Stephanie says, wiping away tears.

"Being able to let Tom know just how much my father loves him and thinks of him is the most amazing feeling, and although Tom is a little wobbly, he knows what we are saying and who we are. I was afraid it was going to be too late, but we made it," she says, giving Tom a gentle squeeze.

Although Tom's hearing and eyesight are rapidly deteriorating, there's no doubt that seeing his brother's daughter - who he says he saw in the telemovie Tenko - was just as moving for him. He told her tales of horse-riding with her dad, and of childhood fishing trips with her grandfather.

Stephanie's video footage of Uncle Tom waving a shaky hand and saying, "Hello Alec, I'm okay, I hope you are well and I love you," will make up for a million missed opportunities when Stephanie takes the film home to her family in England.

"I can't wait for him to see Alec on camera speaking," says Stephanie. "He will be so moved. Daddy is a quiet man who doesn't have a lot to say, but I know it will affect him deeply. All he wants is to know Alec is okay. We have achieved something wonderful.

"It's a pity that on my first trip to Australia I haven't been able to see the country, but there's plenty of time for that, and this far outweighs anything I've done in my life."

As their visit comes to an end, Tom, supported by his cane, insists on walking Stephanie and Phoebe to the door.

"Thank you," he says falteringly. "And tell Alec I will try to write."




Stephanie with Tom
Family portrait
Stephanie meets her Uncle Tom. With her daughters Phoebe & Chloe
and parents Alec & Joan.







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